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Aside from the dogs, Ella is my companion here at home sometimes. She goes here in the afternoon because she wanted to play with the bully kids in the neighborhood. Then after playing, she normally goes home telling me her playmates are picking a fight with her.

After she’s done ranting about her playmates, she gets a pack of biscuit, lounge in the sofa and watch TV. When she’s done having her snacks, she would then get the broom and sweep the floor. Sweet girl! After sweeping, she’s back in the sofa and watch Momay until she doze off.

One thing that she probably likes in here is the cold treat every time the ice cream man pass by. She gets to buy her pick because the Tita cannot say NO to her. Whatta spoiled girl!

Unless if a wife is bed ridden or working away from home, household concerns should be managed by her most especially if she is just staying at home. For me, it makes the WIFE LESS OF A WOMAN for not taking care of the household chores and bury the burden of doing chores to their husband when she is capable of doing things. Not knowing how to cook is not an excuse for not preparing food for the family and pass on that responsibility to the working husband. Take time to learn how to cook. Everybody is not born as cooks. It is something that is learned. Being busy is not even a good excuse because even the busiest people take time to cook for the family.

As you vow to be a wife and mother, you also vow to attend to your responsibilities while the husband also vow to provide. In cases when the wife is the bread winner and works abroad, it is then acceptable (to the society) that the husband will carry on the wife’s responsibilities. So if you cannot perform your duties as a wife and mother, then you should have not married. You’re not a better half, but a burden half.

So it’s been like eleven days since my presence is visible in this blog. I am not out of something to share. I do have lots of stories but on top of that, I wanted to write about something. I am still weighing things out. It does not concern our relationship. It is about the MISERABLE person that is hurting the family. I told Ace if I am in his shoes, I would have confronted that MISERABLE person and tell straight to her face that the problem boils down to her OVERLY nagging and demanding attitude. Ace, on the other hand, told me to rebut in behalf of him on what the miserable wife was saying. He is convinced that the miserable person is just exaggerating things. So I am still composing a good piece. I know the message won’t get through because that person is very close-minded and too proud to think that she is ALWAYS right. Poor thing.